My issue seems more to be the fact that the cage always slides aaaaaall the way down to the balls whenever I'm even remotely erect and this causes a lot of discomfort whenever the balls get squeezed when hard. Not to mention the fact that when I'm sleeping and i get hard the shaft will make its way slightly up the cage (since the ring sits fairly far down the shaft when erect) which causes pain when getting erect again.
I'm already in a pretty small ring and i could use with a little readjustment to increase ball gap but that problem won't be solved with the ball gap
There are three ways people experience ball gap issues:
- Nerve entrapment which manifests itself as a burning sensation under the scrotum and a larger gap is needed.
- Pinching is far simpler and obvious and also indicates you need a larger gap.
- Feeling like your balls are being crushed which feels similar to being kicked in the balls. There are two ways out of this one, a smaller gap or a much larger gap, large enough where the balls don’t even notice a cage there. But the much larger gap requires a ring small enough that it’s your penis’s presence in the ring that prevents the balls from slipping through. A smaller gap helps because the balls are no longer getting squeezed between the ring and cage, just pulled against the gap (vs into the gap), which isn’t painful or no one would be comfortable.
I want a cobra kink3d cage and I’m struggling with sizing… Now, after reading your article, I know I need the cobra S size.
But I’m still on doubt with the ring size. Today I have some cheap cages. With a ring at 48mm, after a while it burns on the scrotum (now I know it is due to the too small ball gap!). With a ring at 50mm, same issue. With a ring at 52mm : much better but very easy to escape the cage…. Kink 3D curved rings : 50,8 or 54mm. I really don’t know what to buy. I should take both but price is huge (and i have to add taxes for shipment because I’m french).
My guess is all of those rings are too large for you. I’m 38 mm flaccid and 53 mm erect which is quite large and I’m in a 48 mm ring.
In an ideal world, you find your ring size apart from the ball gap. You know what ball gap you need, whatever you get with a 52 mm ring (it’s on Kink3D’s website).
I would recommend getting some sizing rings. Cherry Keeper sells them (https://cherrykeeper.net/collections/cherry-keeper-rings), either small or medium (what’s your flaccid and erect girth and are you significantly overweight, are you high and tight or do you hang a little looser?). That will tell you what size ring to get and as I said, you already know your ball gap. Hopefully Kink3D’s curved ring in the size you need has a ball gap at least what you get in the 52 mm ring. If he doesn’t, either go larger (but still curved) or go with Cherry Keeper (I have a post on how to use her site).
CK ships from Eindhoven so you should’t have a duties issue.
I’m glad you enjoy my articles. I really want to help people find a well-fitting cage and reduce some of the trial and error that is inherent to chastity.
You don't have to spend $200, or even $60 for a good, long lasting cock-cage. Cock locking is not something just for well off people. A friend has been wearing a cage that he spent $19.98 on, 8 years ago. It's just fine. He got it from a web store which specializes in BDSM gear. They had clear, easy instructions for the necessary measurements. His only difficulty was putting it on the first time because his cock kept trying to get hard! He's had no difficulty with it since.
Yeah, Tom Van Allen wears such a device – a steel device he got on AliEx or some such site. But for anyone on the girthier side, we have far fewer options.
I've seen that. I "broke up" with a Dom who tried to force chastity on me AFTER I'd told Him that it was a limit.
Recently though I've gotten curious. I've been researching it. One thing that I immediately noticed was that for thicker and longer than average men there were far fewer options and they were 2-4 times the cost.
Length is less of an issue - even though I favor 100 mm devices, I can wear flat.
For 3D printed, Cherry Keeper has plenty of girthier options and there are a few options even on a Amazon but if you're over about 36 mm and want steel, custom is pretty much it and that starts at $300.
I've been on several sites and saw that thicker cocks were mostly limited to plastic and special order, if anything at all. If I decide to try it, I've seen steel cages that'll fit me for around $22-25. It's just curiosity, I doubt that I'll do it. If by some freak of the universe a Dom ever wants me again, it's no longer on my Hard Limits list.😜
Kudos for using LaTeX!
My issue seems more to be the fact that the cage always slides aaaaaall the way down to the balls whenever I'm even remotely erect and this causes a lot of discomfort whenever the balls get squeezed when hard. Not to mention the fact that when I'm sleeping and i get hard the shaft will make its way slightly up the cage (since the ring sits fairly far down the shaft when erect) which causes pain when getting erect again.
I'm already in a pretty small ring and i could use with a little readjustment to increase ball gap but that problem won't be solved with the ball gap
There are three ways people experience ball gap issues:
- Nerve entrapment which manifests itself as a burning sensation under the scrotum and a larger gap is needed.
- Pinching is far simpler and obvious and also indicates you need a larger gap.
- Feeling like your balls are being crushed which feels similar to being kicked in the balls. There are two ways out of this one, a smaller gap or a much larger gap, large enough where the balls don’t even notice a cage there. But the much larger gap requires a ring small enough that it’s your penis’s presence in the ring that prevents the balls from slipping through. A smaller gap helps because the balls are no longer getting squeezed between the ring and cage, just pulled against the gap (vs into the gap), which isn’t painful or no one would be comfortable.
Hi, thank you so much for this article.
I want a cobra kink3d cage and I’m struggling with sizing… Now, after reading your article, I know I need the cobra S size.
But I’m still on doubt with the ring size. Today I have some cheap cages. With a ring at 48mm, after a while it burns on the scrotum (now I know it is due to the too small ball gap!). With a ring at 50mm, same issue. With a ring at 52mm : much better but very easy to escape the cage…. Kink 3D curved rings : 50,8 or 54mm. I really don’t know what to buy. I should take both but price is huge (and i have to add taxes for shipment because I’m french).
Any advice ?
Thanks again for all your nice articles !
My guess is all of those rings are too large for you. I’m 38 mm flaccid and 53 mm erect which is quite large and I’m in a 48 mm ring.
In an ideal world, you find your ring size apart from the ball gap. You know what ball gap you need, whatever you get with a 52 mm ring (it’s on Kink3D’s website).
I would recommend getting some sizing rings. Cherry Keeper sells them (https://cherrykeeper.net/collections/cherry-keeper-rings), either small or medium (what’s your flaccid and erect girth and are you significantly overweight, are you high and tight or do you hang a little looser?). That will tell you what size ring to get and as I said, you already know your ball gap. Hopefully Kink3D’s curved ring in the size you need has a ball gap at least what you get in the 52 mm ring. If he doesn’t, either go larger (but still curved) or go with Cherry Keeper (I have a post on how to use her site).
CK ships from Eindhoven so you should’t have a duties issue.
I’m glad you enjoy my articles. I really want to help people find a well-fitting cage and reduce some of the trial and error that is inherent to chastity.
You don't have to spend $200, or even $60 for a good, long lasting cock-cage. Cock locking is not something just for well off people. A friend has been wearing a cage that he spent $19.98 on, 8 years ago. It's just fine. He got it from a web store which specializes in BDSM gear. They had clear, easy instructions for the necessary measurements. His only difficulty was putting it on the first time because his cock kept trying to get hard! He's had no difficulty with it since.
Yeah, Tom Van Allen wears such a device – a steel device he got on AliEx or some such site. But for anyone on the girthier side, we have far fewer options.
I've seen that. I "broke up" with a Dom who tried to force chastity on me AFTER I'd told Him that it was a limit.
Recently though I've gotten curious. I've been researching it. One thing that I immediately noticed was that for thicker and longer than average men there were far fewer options and they were 2-4 times the cost.
Length is less of an issue - even though I favor 100 mm devices, I can wear flat.
For 3D printed, Cherry Keeper has plenty of girthier options and there are a few options even on a Amazon but if you're over about 36 mm and want steel, custom is pretty much it and that starts at $300.
I've been on several sites and saw that thicker cocks were mostly limited to plastic and special order, if anything at all. If I decide to try it, I've seen steel cages that'll fit me for around $22-25. It's just curiosity, I doubt that I'll do it. If by some freak of the universe a Dom ever wants me again, it's no longer on my Hard Limits list.😜