About Me

I’m in my 50s and I’ve been a submissive in a lifestyle D/s relationship with my wife since late ‘23. I’ve been in chastity since May of ‘24 and Jenn is my keyholder.

I have a real passion for the more technical aspects of chastity especially focusing on comfort and fit. But my other passion is expensive custom cages. Of which, I have.. a lot.

If you’re interested in chastity, trying to figure out how to be comfortable, or want to know about the custom cage artisans out there, you’ve come to the right place.

Newbie Sub?

That’s my Reddit username. Yeah, not a lot of foresight there, huh? I picked it out when I just wanted to anonymously ask a few questions. Well, over the year or so since I set it up, I’ve learned a lot and have given a lot of advice, some of it even good.

What’s the deal with Pliny the Elder?

Nothing special. I have a long habit of using random characters from history as my personae. I usually take these characters from Roman history or the subsequent Medieval period. If you see some identity on Twitter that randomly is named after a 5th century Frank king, say hi. It will either be me or a very confused historian.