This is the chastity agreement that Jenn and I started with a bit over a year ago. There’s a lot of interest in contract-like agreements in the D/s world so I thought some people might find something they can use as a starter and modify as they like.
And no, I’m not a lawyer, I just play one on the internet.
Chastity Agreement
This is a Chastity Agreement between Mitch and Jenn. It describes the roles and responsibilities of each party and provides a framework to explore male chastity and adjacent interactions.
Definitions
The Keyholder – the party who has assumed responsibility for the sexual activities of the caged.
The caged – the party whose sexual agency has been surrendered to the Keyholder.
The Key – the primary key in possession of the Keyholder that will be used to lock and unlock the Cage.
The Cage – the chastity device worn by the caged to assist in compliance with the Terms of the Agreement.
Emergency Key – a key in possession of the caged for use only when the Keyholder is unable to release the caged and exigent circumstances require the caged’s release.
Chastity – for the purposes of the Agreement, the state of forgoing any sexual activity without the express consent and at the direction of the Keyholder regardless of being caged.
Parties
Jenn – the Keyholder.
Mitch – the caged.
Duration
The term of this Agreement will begin June 2nd, 2024 and conclude after four (4) weeks of Chastity at which time it may be extended as is for any term or indefinitely.
The Terms
The caged shall:
Wear the Cage for the term of the Agreement unless permitted to be released by the Keyholder.
Will not sexually pleasure himself in any way unless as directed by the Keyholder.
Never discuss, mention, or otherwise refer to the Cage, Chastity, or the Agreement unless directed by the Keyholder
Never request release from the Cage except as it pertains to hygiene, undue discomfort, health issues, or practical reasons (e.g, TSA screening, doctors’ appointments, requests by the Keyholder to publically wear clothing that reveals the presence of the Cage).
Never request an orgasm.
Submit to any reasonable and practical verification requests or inspections.
Have no expectations on when he is to be released or upon being released, will have no expectations of being allowed to orgasm or any other sexual activity.
Request permission to use the Emergency Key subject to a valid justification as specified in (4). If there is no response in a reasonable time, the caged may use the Emergency Key but immediately inform the Keyholder and provide the justification. The caged will relock the Cage as soon as possible.
Enthusiastically perform the following tasks to the Keyholder’s specifications:
Regularly check the mail and pay any bills.
Ensure the dishes are washed regularly.
Empty the trash and recycling regularly.
Change the cat litter weekly.
Perform bi-monthly maintenance on the cat’s water
Aid the Keyholder in taking her medication.
Make the bed daily.
Prepare the Keyholder’s bath.
Lotion the Keyholder’s back as requested.
Maintain the general order of the house.
Perform any other requested tasks. These tasks may be sexual in nature or may be additional chores.
Be of general aid to the Keyholder.
Within the confines of the Agreement, continue to be an equal partner with the Keyholder.
The Keyholder shall:
Keep the Key secure, preferably on Her person or well hidden when not practical. Any additional spare keys shall be well hidden and their surreptitious use shall be auditable.
Provide an Emergency Key to the caged. The caged’s use of the Emergency Key must be auditable.
Ensure the caged has daily or near-daily reminders that the Keyholder is aware that She is in control of his sexuality and he is in a state of Chastity. These reminders may be physical or verbal with the intention of maintaining the caged in a state of arousal.
Only release the caged as She desires without consideration of the caged aside for the health, hygiene, comfort, or practical reasons described above.
As deemed necessary or appropriate, punish the caged for violations of the Terms. Punishments may include but are not limited to infliction of pain, verbal admonishment, assignment of additional tasks (e.g., write 500 lines or mop the floor), prolonging the time spent caged, and denial of orgasms.
As deserved, offer emotional support and affirmation to the caged including praise and nuzzles.
Invite periodic conversations as to the Agreement, how both parties feel, and any adjustments either to the Agreement or behaviors within the bounds of the Agreement that need to be made.
Take reasonable responsibility for the health and wellbeing of the caged. This includes but is not limited to ensuring the caged is comfortable in the Cage and is taking any necessary dietary supplements.
The Keyholder may:
Ask for verification that the cage is secured. This may include but not limited to asking that the Emergency Key be produced for inspection or production of a verification photo of the Cage or the Emergency Key.
Monitor the caged during any periods he is not wearing the Cage (e.g., showers, changing cages, etc).
Inspect the cleanliness of the Cage or the genitals.
Give the caged control of his sexuality for a predefined maximum term not to exceed seven (7) days. Any such periods will be separated by periods of Chastity of at least equal duration. The bounds of this control may be limited or may be unlimited. Full release of control requires returning the Key to the caged. Returning of the Key shall represent a pause in the Agreement for the term. At the Keyholder’s sole discretion, full adherence to the Terms shall be resumed by both parties at any point.
Confidentiality
Neither party shall disclose the nature of the Agreement or their participation in the Agreement with third parties with the following exceptions:
The Keyholder may, at her discretion, publicly display the Key in an innocuous way and have at hand, a plausible explanation of the Key should questions be asked.
The Keyholder may, at her discretion, speak positively with others about the caged’s performance of household chores or other tasks.
Either party may discuss any aspect of the Agreement or related behaviors with others provided the anonymity of both parties is assured.
Either party may, with prior consent of the other party, discuss aspects of the Agreement or related behaviors within the mutually agreed upon bounds.
Both parties will keep any behaviors discreet from their child unless they feel they are behaviors they wish their child to model.
Early Termination
Either party may withdraw from the Agreement at any time with or without cause. At such time, the parties will no longer participate in their roles under the Agreement and the Keyholder shall return the Key to the caged. If either party unilaterally withdraws from the Agreement, the Agreement cannot be re-entered without modifications of its Terms.
Almost forgot to mention. This is why the term: “Legal and Binding” exists.
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